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我有个朋友  叫黛博拉  是名心理学家
I have a friend, Deborah,
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费城当局曾邀请她
who was asked by the city
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给柬埔寨难民
if she could
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提供义工心理辅导
counseling to
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他们都是海上难民  刚抵城不久
boat people, who had recently arrived in the city.
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黛博拉对此感到畏惧 因为这些柬埔寨人
Deborah was daunted by the task.
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遭受过最惨的际遇  大屠杀  饥荒
had suffered genocide, starvation,
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眼睁睁看着亲人遭杀害
relatives murdered before
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常年住在难民营  甘冒危险乘船前往西方
years in refugee camps, harrowing boat trips to the west.
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她怎么能理解他们的感受
How could she relate to their suffering?
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她做么做才能帮到他们
How could she help these people?
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大家猜猜  这些难民和黛博拉
So guess what all these people wanted to
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我这位心理学家朋友  谈得最多的是什么
with my friend Deborah, the psychologist.
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几乎都是  我在难民营遇见了这个男人
It was all, "I met this guy in the refugee camp.
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本以为他真爱我 
I thought he really loved me,
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但分手后
but when we
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他却和我表妹好上了 
he took up with my cousin.
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而现在又说爱的是我
Now he says he
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还一直给我打电话 
and keeps calling me.
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他们现在结婚了  我该怎么办
They're married now. What should I do?"
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我还爱着他
I still love him.
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这就是我们的真相
This is how we are.
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有什么事吗
May I help you?
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我叫莉兹·吉尔伯特  在写一篇有关巴厘岛的文章
I'm Liz Gilbert. I'm writing a magazine article on Bali.
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我想见一名巫医
I wanted to meet a medicine man.
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大家都建议我来见老四赖爷 
Everyone said I should meet Ketut Liyer.
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他是住在这里吗
Am I in the right place?
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等一下
Wait.
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很快  我就会见到这位传承到第九代的巫医
I mean, here I am with a ninth-generation
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我该问他什么呢
and what do I wanna ask him about?
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如何离上帝更近
Getting closer to God?
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如何拯救全世界的饥饿儿童
Saving the world's starving children?
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很高兴见到你  我是老四赖爷
Happy to see you. I am Ketut Liyer.
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不  我只想和他谈论我的婚姻
Nope. I wanna discuss my relationship.
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你是个世界的旅人
You are a world traveler.
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你会活很久
You will live a
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有许多朋友  经历丰富
have many friends, many experiences.
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你这辈子会有两次婚姻  一长一短
You will have two marriages. One long, one short.
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我现在的婚姻是长是短
Am I in the long one or the short one?
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天机不可泄露
Can't tell.
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还有你会失去所有金钱
Also you will lose all your money.
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我想就在接下来的六到十个月
I think in next six to ten months.
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别担心  你会再拿回来的
Don't worry. You will get it all back again.
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还有  你会重回巴厘
And you will come back
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并在这里待上三四个月
and live here for three or four months
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教我英语
and teach me English.
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从没有人能跟我练习英语
I never had anybody to practice my English with.
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然后
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我就会把我知道的一切教给你
I will teach you everything I know.
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等等
Wait.
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给你这个
I have this for you.
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坚定地踩在地上  就像你有四条腿
Keep grounded so it's like you have four legs.
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这样  你才能待在这个世上
That way, you can stay in this world.
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还有  不要用脑袋看世界
Also, no looking at world through your head.
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而是用你的心
Look through your heart instead.
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如此才可能了解神
That way, you will know God,
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这就是你来此的原因  不是吗
which is why you came here, no?
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回头见  钝吻鳄
See you later, alligator.
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六个月后
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我帮她校对所有手稿
I proofread all of her manuscripts.
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我妻子真的很不错
My wife is very, very beautiful,
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但她的拼写实在不敢恭维
but she can't spell for anything.
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史蒂芬叔叔
Look at Uncle Stephen.
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莉兹婶婶
And Auntie Liz.
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我虔诚祈祷派对能快点结束
I'm counting the minutes for this party to be
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这样我就能钻进宽松的大号睡裤里
over so I can get in my big girl pants.
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你看上去棒极了  你刚生了小孩啊 
You look fantastic. You just had a baby.
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你说谎  我胖了  而且筋疲力尽
You're lying. I'm fat. I'm exhausted.
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我只想着一个字  胖  我觉得我就是丽莎·明妮莉
I can't keep two thoughts. I feel like Liza Minnelli.
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史蒂芬  能抱会杰克吗
Stephen, can you hold Jack?
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-介绍你认识沃尔特  -好的
- I'm gonna introduce you to Walter. - Yeah.
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老兄  想来杯啤酒什么的吗
Dude, you wanna grab a beer or something?
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我的新书会在四月出版  谢谢关心
My new book comes out in April. Thank you for asking.
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-很好  -是五月
- Great. - May.
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对 是五月  五月
May. May.
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这是安德烈  你们俩是《时代》杂志的
This is Andre. You two are times'
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最佳名人候选人
most notable nominees.
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很高兴终于见到你了 
So glad to finally meet you.
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很高兴终于见到你了
Nice to finally meet you.
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我喂过他玉米脆饼了  没问题吧
I fed him nachos. Is that bad?
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你看起来很舒服 
You look comfortable.
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你喂他吃什么  吗[麻醉剂]
What'd you feed him, chloroform?
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来让你爸爸抱吧  -我说了  玉米脆饼
- Give him to his dad. - I told you, nachos.
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如果我那样拉一通的话  我也会睡那么香
Know what? I'd be asleep too if I had a dump like that.
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-到妈妈那里去吧  -来吧
- We'll give him to his mom. - Come here then.
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-想帮
我换尿布吗  -好的
- Wanna help me change his diaper? - Yes, I do.
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古董车销售怎么样
How's the vintage car thing going?
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不  不  不  我换工作了  现在是糕点师
No, no, no. I changed jobs. I'm a pastry chef now.
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-你是面包师傅了  -对
- You mean you're a baker. - Yeah.
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想去猛抽几只吗
You wanna get baked?
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妈咪知道的 
I know, I know.
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很不舒服  是不是
It's hard, isn't it?
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不  这很有趣的
No. This is so much fun.
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还记得你想生孩子的那一瞬间吗
Did you know the exact moment you wanted to have a baby?
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不记得了  但是在我结婚之前
I can't remember, but I've had the
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就有一个箱子 
box since before I got married.
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什么箱子
What box?
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太幼稚了  很难以启齿
It's girly and embarrassing, and
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如果告诉你  你会笑话我的
you'll laugh at me if I tell you.
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我会笑你  不过你还是得告诉我
I will laugh at you, but you still have to tell me.
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好吧
Come on.
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床下面
Under the bed.
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我不停地买宝宝的东西塞进箱子
I've been filling it with
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一直等到安迪准备好做父亲
waiting until Andy was ready to be a father.
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太温馨了
So sweet.
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这条我都能穿得下吧
Does this come in my size?
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我也有个这样的箱子  不过里面
I have a box just like this, except it's
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装满了《国家地理》
filled with
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和《时代》的旅游版面
and the Times travel section.
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都是我死之前想去的地方
All the places I wanna see before I die.
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莉兹  生孩子就像在脸上刺青
Liz, having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face.
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做之前一定得确定你想这么做
You kind of wanna be fully committed.
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我下周去阿鲁巴岛 
So my trip to Aruba next week,
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只是写最基本的游记  比如
which is just a basic,
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"去哪睡觉  游泳  品尝美食"
之类的
"where to sleep, swim and stuff your face"
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我买了新的比基尼
I got a new bikini.
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不过我刚知道  可以无限制享受酒店小冰箱里的食物
And it turns out, I have unlimited minibar access.
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-知道说明什么吗  -身体不能适应
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You know what that means? - Jet lag?
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你和我
You, me...
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尽情享用澳洲坚果
macadamia nuts.
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真可爱
That was cute.
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你知道我在聚会上跟谁聊天
You know who I was talking to at the
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他真的让我挺佩服的
party who was
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-塔拉的朋友  -布莱恩
- ...was Tara's friend. - Brian.
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布莱恩  不可思议  他是个老师  你知道吗
Brian. Unbelievable. He's a teacher, you know that?
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是代课老师  不是吗
He's a substitute teacher, isn't he?
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对  他谈到了
Yeah. He was talking about the
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教育费用预算的缩减
budget cuts that are happening right now.
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学校几乎一分钱也没有了
There's no money for anything.
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学校取消了音乐课  艺术课
There's no music classes, there's no arts classes.
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他们放学后志愿给孩子们补习
They're volunteering their time to do all of this after school.
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教孩子们音乐和艺术 
They're educating our kids, you know?
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我想你会是个了不起的老师  亲爱的
I think you'd make a great teacher, honey.
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谢谢  不过我考虑得更长远
Thank you, but I was thinking more
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我想考个教育硕士学位
education. Getting my masters,
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继续深造  我不知道
going back to school. I don't know.
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知道吗
You know?
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我  你知道
I--
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-继续深造  -你当我在自言自语吧
- Going back to school. - I'm just thinking out loud.
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我有个不祥的预感
I was getting the sinking feeling that
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赖爷的预言就要成真了
Ketut's prophecy was coming true.
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现在的婚姻是短的那个吗
Was I in the shorter marriage?
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我们一年前才买的这套